The Total Transformation®

7 Audio Lessons + 1 DVD, 116-page instruction manual

4.68 out of 5 based on 1483 customer ratings
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Most parents struggle with bad behavior, whether it’s disrespect, arguing or severe defiance. But with the right skills and support, you don’t have to struggle anymore. The Total Transformation® Program takes you step by step through understanding and managing your child’s behavior and shows you exactly what you need to do to develop your child’s problem solving skills – stopping bad behavior for good.

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  1. The Total Transformation®

    5 out of 5

    Life Changing

    This program gave me tools which gives me more confidence in managing situations as they arise. I appreciate this program and the value goes beyond any cost involved! I hope everyone who is struggling More will get started NOW!


  2. The Total Transformation®

    5 out of 5

    This is a life-changing program

    My husband and I purchased this program by a recommendation from a friend with a son the same age our son and going to the same difficulties. We were at the end of our rope and living in misery. This program More was excellent. So many good tips,advice and strategies. My husband and I watch the videos together did the feedback together and really discussed things about what was going on in the home and how we can make things change. One especially relevant comment was your fighting battles anyhow but you might as well win them. It has truly changed our sons behavior and our approach to parenting. We feel we are much more empowered and effective and our son has been responsive to our consistent Parenting styles now. We would definitely recommend this program to other parents. Thank you very very much!


  3. The Total Transformation®

    5 out of 5

    very good parenting resource

    Going through this program is a big investment of time. My husband and I worked hard to try to apply the things we learned in the program with our family. We saw some positive changes happen. Sometimes More we felt overwhelmed with information, even though it was good information. We feel like this program is now a tool that we can use, especially with our two, often challenging, teenagers, along with personal professional counseling, parenting books we trust, and prayer. Our favorite Cd in the collection is actually the one that list the 10 steps-it's a nice, quick review session .


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Product Features:

  • Jump Start CD
  • Parent’s Workshop DVD
  • 7 Audio Lesson CDs
  • 116-Page Workbook
  • Bonus Audio Lesson CD

Regain control of your child, your family and your life.

You need help in the moment when you are overwhelmed with defiance and bad behavior. You need tools you can use at home to get your child to solve their own problems without acting out. And you need the fighting, screaming and defiance to stop.

Restore peace and sanity in your home.

  • No more walking on eggshells around your child
  • End frustration and exhaustion from constant arguing
  • Stop pleading and negotiating with your child
  • Feel empowered, not helpless
  • Stop blaming yourself for your child’s behavior
  • No more feeling like a bad parent
  • Replace power struggles with accountability

In this program, you’ll:

  • Get kids to listen, behave and act responsibly at home and at school
  • Learn the 10 words to say when your child talks back
  • Eliminate “acting out” in public
  • Stop the blame game for good
  • Master specific consequences for kids of all age groups
  • Discover exactly what to say and do to stop arguments and get through to your child
  • Understand how to prevent future issues before they start
  • Get your child to cooperate and comply, without raising your voice
  • Learn how to talk so your child will listen and respond appropriately
  • Teach your child problem solving skills
  • Rediscover the joys of being a parent
  • Establish lasting respect between you and your child

1-on-1 Coaching

When you need guidance through a specific situation, have questions about your program or just need someone to listen when you’re overwhelmed, our professional 1-on-1 Coaches are waiting to help. Each is highly experienced with our range of learning programs, and dedicated to personally motivating and supporting you. Simply call or email and get personalized guidance related to your program. Plus, since 1-on-1 Coaching is an optional service, you can elect to use it as long as you need it.

Our professional staff of 1-on-1 Coaches is here to help guide you through your learning program. Many have experienced parenting challenges firsthand, and offer a fresh and knowledgeable perspective.

Coaching can be added to your order during the checkout process.

The James Lehman Approach

Drawing from personal experience and 30 years in the field

“I was a kid with behavior problems—about the worst problems you can imagine.”  James LehmanJames Lehman, MSW

James Lehman, who dedicated his life to behaviorally troubled youth, created The Total Transformation®, The Complete Guide to Consequences™, Getting Through To Your Child™, and Two Parents One Plan™, from a place of professional and personal experience. Having had severe behavioral problems himself as a child, he was inspired to focus on behavioral management professionally. Together with his wife, Janet Lehman, he developed an approach to managing children and teens that challenges them to solve their own problems without hiding behind disrespectful, obnoxious or abusive behavior. Empowering Parents now brings this insightful and impactful program directly to homes around the globe.

“Parent the child you have, not the child you wish you had.”

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